For Guest Shomrim

Thank you for offering to sit shmira for a member of our community.

Because this role involves entry into a private facility, we need guest volunteers to complete a simple registration form. The registration allows us to coordinate safely with our partner facilities.

Your registration is tied to a specific shmira need. If you'd like to help with a future shmira, you'll register again at that time

What Happens Next
Shortly after you submit your registration form, you will receive an email from info@boulderchevrakadisha.org with a link to your personal view of the requested shmira schedule.


  • Must be 18+ years old to sit shmira alone.

  • Must provide contact information via the Guest Registration form.

  • Only shmira shifts available for guest shomrim are during mortuary business hours.

  • Please get in touch with the Boulder Chevra Kadisha if you are unable to make your committed time frame or if you need to leave early/come late.

Terms & Conditions for Guest Shomrim


Instructions and guidebooks are available to read online or download.

Guest Shomrim Resources

Tips and Advice for Sitting Shmira

  • Bring a sweater and wear comfortable clothes

  • If you are leaving after hours, make sure you have your keys and your phone before you leave.

  • Self-Care: It’s okay to feel emotional. "You are doing a hard thing”

  • Taking Breaks: If your voice gets tired, it is perfectly okay to read silently or take a short moment of quiet meditation.

  • Bring Grounding Materials: If you find it difficult to sit and read Psalms for 2 hours - bring your own material.

  • Arrive Early - allow yourself time to transition from the outside world.

The most important thing you bring into the shmira room is your kavanah -
your sincere intention to be present.

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What To Do During a Shmira Shift

Read

The shomrim can read or recite Psalms or other texts on spirituality or Jewish traditions on end-of-life and mourning.

Appropriate reading material is provided in the Shmira Room, or you may bring your own appropriate reading material.

Quiet Meditation or Reflection

Many find this a meaningful time for quiet study or personal reflection.

You might find yourself simply thinking about your own life or the person you are with. That is okay.

Just “Be”

Your primary job isn't to do anything—it is simply to be. Because you are there to perform this mitzvah, you are already doing it right. Your presence is the act itself.